About Amy
Amy Carnes is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who helps people facing relationship strain, grief, parenting stress, anxiety, depression, and life transitions. She speaks plainly and focuses on practical steps families and individuals can use right away.
Background and approach
Amy aims to make the first steps feel manageable and clear so people can start seeing small changes quickly. She brings 11 years of clinical experience and holds a Master of Science in Psychology from California Polytechnic State University.
Amy is licensed to practice in California and Wisconsin as an LMFT. Her work often centers on relationships, loss and major life changes, though she also addresses trauma, addiction, mood disorders, and self-esteem concerns.
In sessions she blends client-centered listening with cognitive behavioral techniques. That means she listens first and then offers concrete skills to change unhelpful thoughts and habits.
She also uses tools drawn from the Gottman Method and motivational interviewing when helpful for relationship patterns or motivation for change. Amy adapts therapy to each person’s needs.
She talks through goals with clients and builds a plan that fits their day-to-day life. Many people find this mix helpful when they need support during big transitions or when coping feels overwhelming.
Her approach aims to be transparent and collaborative. Amy explains what to expect at each step and checks in about progress.
She welcomes questions and focuses on making therapy practical and understandable for busy people.
Approaches that guide online sessions
Amy commonly uses client-centered therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy in her online work. Client-centered therapy focuses on listening closely and building trust so people can talk through what matters most to them. Cognitive behavioral therapy offers clear tools and exercises to change thinking patterns and daily habits that contribute to anxiety, depression, or relationship conflict.She also draws from the Gottman Method when relationship dynamics are a central concern, using structured conversations and skill-building to help partners communicate more effectively. These approaches are explained in simple terms and chosen based on what the person wants to work on and what fits their life.
Finding the right approach is a shared process. The therapist will help identify goals, try methods that match those goals, and adjust the plan as progress is made. Clients are invited to give feedback so sessions stay focused and useful.
Online therapy offers flexibility for busy schedules. Video calls let people see facial cues and practice new skills in real time. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited. Live chat or text-based messaging work well for brief check-ins, quick skill reminders, or when a shorter touchpoint fits a day. These options make it easier to keep therapy consistent during life transitions.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- Parenting issues
Also works with
- Addictions
- Attachment issues
- Bipolar disorder
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Co-morbidity
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Mood disorders
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 11 years
- Licensed
- Wisconsin, California
- Languages
- English