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EL Portrait of Dr. Estella Lerlo

Dr. Estella Lerlo, LMFT

Direct, relational therapy for stress and intimacy

About Estella

Dr. Estella Lerlo is a licensed marriage and family therapist practicing in California.

Background and approach

She has 14 years of clinical experience supporting people who are coping with stress, anxiety, relationship strains, trauma and intimacy concerns. She speaks English and guides conversations in a calm, direct manner that many find easy to follow.

Her work focuses on helping people feel understood and safe enough to talk about hard things. Sessions aim to make emotional patterns clearer and to try practical steps that can reduce distress.

She often helps clients sort through attachment wounds, abandonment fears, and problems with trust and closeness. Dr.

Lerlo uses tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thoughts and to test new behaviors. She also draws on Emotionally-Focused Therapy and attachment-based ideas to help people connect their feelings with patterns in close relationships.

Mindfulness practices and elements from the Gottman Method are added when they fit a person's goals. Her style is straightforward and collaborative.

Clients can expect clear explanations of methods and simple, doable tasks to practice between sessions. She pays attention to communication problems, codependency, commitment worries, and issues that follow trauma or disaster.

Practical concerns like money questions and life purpose are also included in conversations when relevant. The therapist encourages honest, step-by-step work and helps people set realistic goals for change.

Working with attachment and behavior online

Dr. Lerlo commonly uses Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early relationship patterns shape current connections. This approach helps people name attachment wounds and practice different ways of relating to partners or close others. She also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which focuses on spotting unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors to reduce anxiety and stress.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist talks with each person about goals and preferences, then suggests methods to try. That plan can change as progress is made, and decisions are made collaboratively throughout the process.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Video feels most like an in-person session and allows face-to-face conversation. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can fit a short check-in during a lunch break. Live chat and text messaging can help people stay in contact between appointments and may suit those who prefer written check-ins or need flexible timing.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?
She helps with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma and intimacy-related issues, plus concerns like self-esteem, abandonment and post-traumatic stress.
What is her general therapy style?
Her approach is collaborative and straightforward, with clear explanations and practical tasks to try between sessions.
How much experience does she bring?
She has 14 years of professional work experience supporting people with a range of emotional and relationship challenges.
What are her credentials and location?
She is a California licensed marriage and family therapist - LMFT - and practices in California.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.
In what formats are sessions offered?
Therapy sessions can be scheduled as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
How are costs handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session based on therapist availability.