About Mary
Mary Stein is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in California with 27 years of experience helping people facing stress, anxiety, relationship trouble, grief, depression, and addiction.
Background and approach
She offers calm, steady support and practical help for issues like sleep and eating problems, anger, low self-esteem, career stress, and coping with life changes. Her approach is warm and interactive.
Sessions focus on understanding what brought someone in and then choosing useful steps to feel better. Mary pays attention to each person’s goals and strengths and encourages small, steady changes that add up over time.
Mary combines several clinical approaches to match a person’s needs. She uses client-centered work to build a respectful, collaborative relationship.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps people spot unhelpful thoughts and learn new coping skills. She also draws on elements of Dialectical Behavior Therapy, existential therapy, and mindfulness to address emotion regulation, life meaning, and present-moment awareness.
Her background includes independent practice, work as a clinical supervisor in adolescent residential programs, and experience at a domestic violence agency. That variety shaped her focus on safety, communication, and practical problem solving.
Sessions are offered in English and through online formats. Mary emphasizes compassion and steady progress while helping people rebuild healthier routines, stronger relationships, and clearer goals for the future.
How therapy approaches fit with online care
Client-centered therapy focuses on building a respectful, accepting relationship where the person’s goals and strengths guide each session. This approach helps when someone needs a steady, empathetic place to talk through feelings and decisions.Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) teaches practical skills to spot unhelpful thoughts and change patterns of behavior. It can help with anxiety, depression, sleep and eating problems, and managing everyday stress by using homework and clear strategies.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers tools for managing intense emotions and improving relationships through skills like distress tolerance and emotion regulation. It is useful for people who want concrete ways to handle strong feelings and reduce reactive behavior.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to choose methods that fit their needs, goals, and preferences. That may mean combining elements from different approaches and adjusting over time as progress is made.
Online therapy offers flexibility in how sessions happen. Video calls let people use face-to-face interaction when a fuller conversation is helpful. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth or camera use is limited. Live chat and text-based messaging are options for brief check-ins, tools practice, or when written reflection fits a schedule. These formats make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives and to keep continuity while trying different therapeutic methods.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also works with
- Addictions
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Bipolar disorder
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 27 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English