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Kaete Elliott, LMFT

Compassionate, practical therapy for everyday struggles

About Kaete

Kaete Elliott is a licensed marriage and family therapist who brings 24 years of clinical experience to her practice in California. She focuses on stress, anxiety, depression, anger, relationship struggles, and LGBTQ concerns.

Background and approach

Kaete aims to create a calm, nonjudgmental space where people can talk about what matters most to them. She helps clients untangle communication problems and control issues that make daily life harder.

Clients also turn to her for support with panic attacks, isolation and loneliness, and the emotional fallout of divorce or separation. Kaete offers practical ways to manage intense feelings and rebuild more stable patterns.

Her work emphasizes straightforward conversation and steady support. Sessions focus on what is happening now and on small changes that make a real difference day to day.

She encourages people to name difficult feelings like guilt, shame, or anger, and then to try simple strategies to reduce their hold. Kaete draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques to guide the process, choosing approaches that match each person’s situation.

She collaborates with clients to set clear goals and to track progress. Her style is direct but warm, helping people feel heard and understood while learning new ways to cope.

Clients meet with Kaete online through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text messaging. She works in English and offers services to people based in California.

Evidence-based approaches and online therapy options

Kaete uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on present difficulties and teach practical coping skills. One common approach she uses helps people learn concrete strategies to reduce anxiety and manage panic attacks, such as breathing and grounding practices and short behavioral experiments to test worries. Another approach focuses on improving communication and handling anger - it teaches clearer ways to express needs, set limits, and respond when emotions run high.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Kaete collaborates with each person to choose methods that match their goals, current problems, and personal style. She checks in regularly and adjusts the plan if something isn’t working or if new issues come up.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different lifestyles. Video is useful for in-depth conversation and visual cues, phone calls work well when bandwidth is limited, and live chat or messaging can be a quick way to check in between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy days and to keep momentum while making changes.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Kaete commonly address?
She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, anger, relationship challenges, and LGBTQ matters. Additional focus areas include panic attacks, loneliness, guilt and shame, and divorce or separation.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her approach is straightforward and supportive. She emphasizes open conversation, practical strategies, and collaborative goal setting.
How much experience does she have?
Kaete has 24 years of professional work experience in clinical settings. That background informs her practical, steady approach to care.
Where is Kaete licensed to practice?
She is a California licensed marriage and family therapist - LMFT - and provides services while located in California.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can people outside the U.S. work with Kaete?
She is not currently accepting international clients and provides services to people within her licensed region.
What formats are available for sessions?
Sessions can be scheduled as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How are costs and getting started handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription model that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Specialties and expertise

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Experience
24 years
Licensed
California
Languages
English