Dr. Vanessa Prestridge Graf, LMFT
Practical therapy for thoughts and relationships
About Vanessa
Dr. Vanessa Prestridge Graf helps people tackle stress, anxiety, relationship strain, parenting challenges, low self-esteem, depression, addictions, and grief.
Background and approach
She also supports people facing intimacy-related concerns, sleep or eating difficulties, anger, bipolar symptoms, and LGBT issues. Her name appears here because she combines long experience with a down-to-earth style.
She uses straightforward conversation to find the thoughts and patterns that keep someone stuck. She often helps people notice unhelpful beliefs formed early in life and then test new, more balanced ways of thinking.
That practical focus is paired with gentle curiosity about a person's history and relationships. Sessions include skill building and mindful practices to reduce anxiety and lift mood.
She encourages small, doable changes and uses exercises people can apply between sessions. Her work blends present-focused techniques with attention to deeper life themes.
Vanessa holds the LMFT credential, which reflects her background in marriage and family therapy, and she has worked in the field for 29 years. She practices in California and brings clinical experience across many areas of emotional and relational difficulty.
People who meet with her can expect calm, direct feedback and room to tell their story. She aims to help people replace harsh self-judgment with kinder self-talk and to build habits that support lasting change.
Approaches that guide online work
Dr. Graf uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice and change unhelpful thoughts and the behaviors those thoughts create. CBT focuses on simple steps you can practice between sessions to reduce anxiety, manage mood, and shift patterns that cause problems.She also incorporates Mindfulness Therapy to build awareness of the present moment and reduce reactivity. Mindfulness practice can help with anxiety, stress, eating or sleeping problems, and strengthening attention to what is working in daily life.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. She will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. That means trying techniques, checking what helps, and adjusting the plan together rather than prescribing one fixed path.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives. Video is useful for face-to-face conversation and teaching skills. Phone sessions take less bandwidth and can work well on a short break. Live chat and messaging let people check in between sessions or use shorter touchpoints when that suits their routine. These options aim to increase flexibility and access while preserving the same therapeutic approaches used in person.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Parenting issues
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Depression
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 29 years
- Licensed
- California, Colorado
- Languages
- English