About Phillip
Rev. Phillip Deming uses a relational, client-centered approach to help people facing stress, anxiety, grief, depression, and addiction.
Background and approach
She brings 25 years of professional experience and works to make sessions feel approachable and understandable. People who want to include their faith in therapy can do so, and sessions are offered in English from California.
Her style emphasizes listening first. She creates space to talk through strong feelings without judgment.
That calm, steady presence guides how she helps people identify patterns and try new ways of coping with pain or loss. She also draws on cognitive behavioral techniques to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and test small behavioral changes.
Those practical steps pair with mindfulness practices to reduce overwhelm and improve sleep and focus. Narrative work is used to gently reframe difficult life stories when people are ready.
Rev. Deming has worked with adults facing family conflict, caregiving stress, chronic illness, trauma and abuse, and issues tied to identity and sexuality.
She offers tools for managing compassion fatigue, ADHD-related struggles, and relationship challenges. Her background includes long-term roles supporting people through major life transitions and loss.
Sessions aim to be collaborative and grounded. She helps set clear goals and checks in on progress.
If faith matters to someone, she will honor that belief system while avoiding any pressure to follow it. Therapy is offered through video, phone, live chat, and text-based messaging, using a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
Prospective clients start by completing a short matching questionnaire to schedule appointments.
How therapeutic approaches translate to online care
Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and building a respectful relationship. In online sessions this means time is spent understanding what matters most to the person and shaping goals together. Cognitive behavioral therapy helps people spot unhelpful thoughts and try small behavioral experiments. Over video or phone, the therapist and client can use worksheets, set homework, and track progress between meetings.Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to choose methods that match their needs, goals, and preferences. Sessions may combine listening, cognitive strategies, mindfulness exercises, and narrative reflection as those fit the situation.
Online formats offer practical flexibility. Video calls suit deeper conversations and visual cues. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging allow brief updates, coping tips, and ongoing contact between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life and to keep momentum between appointments.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Isolation / loneliness
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 25 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English