About Patricia
Patricia Sumlin greets people who are feeling worn down, overwhelmed, or unsure where to turn. She aims to help individuals who are coping with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, addiction, identity concerns, or changes at work or home.
Background and approach
Patricia uses a direct, respectful style that focuses on practical skills as well as understanding what led to current struggles. With 25 years of experience, Patricia blends common-sense strategies with several therapeutic methods.
She draws on approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, attachment-focused ideas, client-centered work, cognitive behavioral techniques, and dialectical behavior strategies. Sessions tend to focus on skill building, emotional regulation, and clearer decision making.
Her background includes work in community settings, residential programs, hospice, and clinics serving diverse populations. That experience informs how she addresses complex situations like trauma histories, substance concerns, chronic health challenges, and issues linked to neurodiversity.
She also offers support around sexual orientation and gender identity issues for LGBTQIA people. Patricia is a licensed marriage and family therapist - LMFT - practicing in Washington.
She aims to form a straightforward, collaborative relationship where clients feel believed and respected. Conversations in sessions are practical, honest, and aimed at helping people gain tools they can use outside of therapy.
People who choose her can expect a mix of insight work and hands-on skill practice. The goal is increased resilience, better day-to-day coping, and gradual steps toward more satisfying relationships and routines.
Approaches that fit real life and online care
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) encourages noticing thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then taking values-driven steps. It can help with anxiety, depression, and life transitions by focusing on what matters to you and building actions around those values. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns shape current connections and reactions; this approach helps people understand and change long-standing relational habits and safety needs. Client-Centered Therapy prioritizes listening, empathy, and the person’s own goals, creating space to make choices and build confidence.Finding the right mix of approaches is a collaborative process. Patricia works with each person to identify what feels most helpful based on their goals, history, and day-to-day needs. Together they try different strategies, notice what helps, and adjust the plan as needed so therapy stays practical and relevant.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different rhythms of life. Video works well for deeper conversations and skill demonstrations. Phone can be simpler when bandwidth is an issue or for shorter check-ins. Live chat and text messaging suit quick updates, coaching moments, or when it helps to put thoughts into words over time. These options aim to make therapy more flexible and easier to fit into work, caregiving, or travel schedules.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Trichotillomania
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
- Gottman Method
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Experience
- 25 years
- Licensed
- California, Washington
- Languages
- English